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10 Signs That You're Dating a Commitment-Ready Guy

1. His friends are married

Research has show that if his friends are already married, he's more likely to get married. If all of his friends are still single and in the "party-with-the-boys" phase, that's a bad sign. Friends is a major influence in life. So ladies, take a look at your loved one friends.

2. He's financially secure

Got STABLE $$ income = Happy. True? You decide.

3. He pursues you
If you always have to be the one intiating those texts and calls you gave him then the guy is clearly not worth your time.

4. He's willing to wait
Yes, research is telling us what we already know: If a guy gets to know you before getting intimate, he is more likely to commit. It's ALWAYS better to know the guy for sometime then go into a relationship then not know the guy and go into a relationship. Observe your choices ladies!

5. He watches DVDs with you when you're sick
The most important thing is not that he take care of you when your sick. The most important thing is that the simple little thing he do with you when you are at your lowest.

6. He gets to know your friends and family
A guy who is thinking long-term wants to truly get to know you. Seeing you interact with your family and friends helps him learn where you come from and more about who you are. The flip side of it is that he will also want you to get to know him! He'll want to see if you fit in with his family and friends. A guy who keeps you separate from the important people in his life is just playing around.

7. He says, "we" instead of "me"
When he switches from "me" to "we", that's a sign he's committing to you at a deeper level. If your guy is all, "I", "me", and "my" instead of "we" and "us" in conversations after you've been dating a while, his mindset is still in single guy mode.

8. He's not afraid of compromise
He will ask you for your opinion for decision making rather than not consult you. It is extremely crucical for a long relationship to last. It's the most basic form of respect.

9. He doesn't need excuses
Commitment-phobic guys always have an excuse about why they can't be with you on Saturday night, why they didn't call, and why they aren't ready for a relationship right now. A commitment-ready guy doesn't need excuses, he just needs you.

10. He likes being in a long-term relationship
He don't complain always being with you, think of you as a burden instead of a gift. Grumble all the times and always complaining he need his spaces then he is not ready to commit. On the other hand,if he's done with the party scene, enjoys your "couple time" together, and has a strong sense of family, you've found a commitment-ready guy.

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I have summarize some points only, not entirely. Been a lengthy post. So that's about it. Oh yes one more thing, I don't really get what I'm doing in my life lately, been kind of lost. >.<.

~ouT