Its Just a Name

To my special someone!

Want to spend money so it makes you happy? Then stay away from a luxury-lined closet. Research from the University of Chicago and University of Wisconsin-Madison found that spending money on leisure activities can boost happiness, while spending on material goods such as clothes does not. That's because leisure spending often boosts relationships with friends and family members, and that, in turn, makes us happy.

That means the savvy consumer should skip retail therapy, and plan a vacation instead.

Source: Click Here!

Ponder, Ask.

When I was young I thought money was the most important thing in life. But now that I grow older I know it is.

I am a person that want things to be done fast. Things I regard as important. Things I regard as the next phrase of my life. Or maybe just another simple step. The fire in me isn’t burning very brightly anymore.

I don’t consider myself to be a perfectionist; if I do I won’t be breathing normally. I would just be in a state of coma. A coma that last so long that will eat my life away. Opinions sometimes may differ. Opinions sometimes maybe similar, I seek opinions those which are extremely nasty and bad.

To get release or feel better, I shouldn’t care so much. Yes it is my fruit of labor but some things in life you just got to let it go. Let it run, let it be. What I see maybe different from others. What I feel maybe different from others. The weak will just cry over it, the efficient will just find another new one. The wise will always reserve a backup.

The plan is set now I just need the wind.

Ended

My Vengeance has ended.

Suddenly

Suddenly I feel like re-playing every PS3 game I previously played, finished and sold. Eg.

Assassins Creed II
inFamous
Batman Arkham Asylum
Prince of Persia
Grand Theft Auto IV (currently replaying)

&

Not to mention this March Gaming Madness Starts!

Starting with Heavy Rain!

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Final Fantasy XIII!! WEETS!

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God Of War III!

Can't Wait! 16th March

Lastly I miss you Ezio Auditore da Firenze...

~ouT

Blindsided

I was blindsided first time in my life. It pulls my ego down a lot. How I wish I was Zhuge Liang!

Like a prostitute!

I’m off here blogging again. Life has been great until recently. I’m in a dilemma seriously. I am standing on a crossroad right now.

I could walk straight and continue but will there be someone to accompany this road I’m walking? I could turn right and pull the plug OR I could turn left and walk alone.

I feel like a prostitute, chasing people around and it seriously pisses me off. Maybe I’m over reacting and it’s only 2 days and I will wait for a few more days to make a conclusion. I’m done chasing people around! IF MIA was the choice then so be it. Maybe I'm expecting too much, maybe I want the work to be done asap.

Three months down, it has been a great joy to work side by side. Things happen for a reason, NOT! Whatever it is time would tell. Patient is the key to success! Agreed! Ar-huh!

~ouT

Leona Lewis - Happy

Leona Lewis shot to instant stardom when her debut single "Bleeding Love" rocketed to the top of the charts and her multi-platinum debut album "Spirit" going to #1 all around the world. Originally from The X Factor UK, Simon Cowell discovered her and helped make her record. Now she's back with "Happy", the lead single for her sophomore album "Echo" which comes out in November this year. This was penned by Ryan Tedder, who wrote her debut single with Jesse McCartney.

Random

Having NF lesson now, Its bored to the core.

It goes like this:

100.10.10.20
100.200.100.73

What is the crap? Ervin ask what is this bird?

Yu Chin says Different Different!
Kenn says lets poke out the eyes and mix it with chilli

Now Yuchin is asking when did I say different different? And goes Huh the practical cable?

Now it goes: 222.10.30.5

Now Yuchin say GOOD! I love pratical! Guo wei is so handsome!
I love guo wei! Ervin is Rooney! Kenn Ronaldinho
Teacher Garfield.

See he has clearly gone nuts by saying such absurb statement. He is an extremely disturbed person.

~ouT

Blew

I just blew up an External harddisk. Like BOOM!!

Colbie Caillat - Midnight bottle

12 Simple Tips For Relationship Bliss

One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our relationship work?" The answers are complicated, varied, and, after a while, can start to sound like muddled platitudes. But these commonplace sayings get repeated because they work. With this in mind, we pulled together 12 cliches that, in fact, reveal simple, tried-and-true advice for having a healthy, happy relationship. Read on and let us know what you think:

1. Mind your manners. "Please," "thank you" and "you're welcome," can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love him and don't take him for granted.

2. Variety is the spice of life. Studies have shown that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Trying something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or as grand as a backpacking trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make together will keep you feeling close. Video Advice: My Wife Won't Tell Me Her Fantasies

3. The couple that plays together, stays together. Find a sport or hobby that you both love (no, watching TV does not count) and make that a priority in your relationship. Camping, biking, building model trains... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

4. Fight right. In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind. Don't call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don't initiate a discussion when you're angry. 9 Things To Say During A Fight

5. I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine. No one likes demands, but everyone can appreciate a compromise. If you want your lover to do something and you're not sure he'll be agreeable, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: "Sure, I'll watch Monday Night Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice."

6. Two heads are better than one. Being in a relationship basically means you've made a merger; you've not only joined assets but inherited the other's problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. For example, if he's gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in an exercise program together. Fun And Free: The Exercise Date

7. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Maintain your own friendships and occasionally have a night out without your significant other. Doing things without your s.o. not only makes you miss him or her, it also keeps you sane. And, in case the relationship doesn't work out, you'll still have your friends.

8. Sound it out. It other words: communicate! Talking out the tough subjects—money, religion, fidelity, raising kids—will not be the most fun you've had, but it'll be valuable.

9. Laughter is the best medicine. Learn to laugh at yourself and at silly mistakes. If he throws your $300 cashmere sweater in the dryer, laughing it off is, in the long run, better than getting angry. It's is just a $300 cashmere sweater, not the end of the world.

10. Keep your eyes on the prize. Yes, he forgot your co-worker's name for the tenth time, but it probably doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. If you keep your perspective fixed on the goal—to be in a happy, functioning partnership—you're less likely to get tangled up in every minor annoyance. Remember, you both want the same thing. Seven Ways To Stay Happy (All Year Long)

11. Quitters never win. Find a ritual and keep it alive, no matter what. Whether it's always kissing each other good night, renewing wedding vows every year, sleeping in as late as you want once a month or committing to having sex once a week, pick something that makes you both feel good and stick to it, even when you're tempted to skip.

12. When the going gets tough, the tough get going... to therapy. Studies show that couples who seek counseling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don't. Whether its from a religious figure, counselor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is as wise as forgoing self-installation and hiring a plumber to put in a new sink.

From Yahoo.

Michael Jackson 'This Is It' Official Movie Trailer

The Official Movie trailer for Michael Jackson 'This Is It'. Movie will be in theaters everywhere October 28.



Just Watch.

Holidays!

Okay for me its already past 2 weeks of holidays. But for most, its just started and for some its not even started. Opps I'm so going to get Bi..t.. haha for this.

Anyway watched District 9 last week and it is the BEST movie of the year. First time director, first time actor = best movie?

Seriously go watched it. It's a masterpiece I must say, if you do watch movies based on superfical level it caters you well. It does did a great job with so many people being blown to pieces. =X

But if you do watch movie to catch a deeper meaning this is a MUST watch. It's not any sci-fic movie where alien shoot laser at humans. It explores a darker side of humanity, how we treat other species differently, lust for power, superstition and many more. The movie its worth more than 10 dollars of your tickets. Enough said.

Other than that, holiday this time round seems rather lengthy. Although it's holiday but I dont actually feel quite like it. Hmm...

~ouT

Anna Nalick - Breathe (acoustic)

I manage to listen to this song on the cinema like 3 years ago. Same singer, same song and I stumble across this video so is it. Nice song, Great singer. Worth a listen. There is only a handful of people who can sing "live" so beautifully.

Birthday and some Updates

I don’t really blog these days due to the hectic schedule everyday. There’s like tons of project and assignment to do! I slept only 5 hours in the past 3 days! I kind of miss last year where I can reach school at 10 and end school at the latest 3. That is like pure relaxation and no homework!

On the side note, I thank everyone that has sent me a greeting on my birthday. Especially Jun Lun and Han Wei for the being in the “plan” set up by one of the silliest and important person of my life.

The silliest and important person of my life a.k.a my Small Head – Precious BaBy spend my 20th birthday together with me the whole day. Although I pretty much spend most of the time in school. GOD DAMN time table! If you guys want to see some pictures go over to my first link (PrEciouS BaBy) and click it. Ta-Dah!

Aside from my birthday, yelling was the highlight for me today. For now only 2 ladies can yell at me. Uh-huh… Although I really get pissed off when people yell at me but this 2 ladies can have the privilege to repeat the offence. Why? Because they are important to me. =D

2 more weeks of struggling and everything will be over! Finger cross embracing for relaxation!

The Thing About Fear.

Watching The Dark Knight yesterday makes me kind of think of this phrase:

“Upset the establish order and everything turns into chaos”
“It’s all part of the plan”

OMG OMG OMG! Health Ledger Joker face is back in my head! LOL!

约定 - 周惠

Looking Back~

It’s bloody 4.13 am now! LOL. Why am I still not sleeping? Well it’s holiday! Seriously I have been in absence of this blog for too long. Although I don’t really know why I still continue blogging but oh well. Might as well keep some people updated. Or NoT!

I have been thinking how the past 7 weeks in Ngee Ann was. I could think of a few words. Busy, Tired, Crazy, Funny and Retardness! Every week almost 5 days I have to stay after 3 pm or maybe later.

It just completely obliterated my dream everyday! Those who know me, you guys should know what I’m trying to convey. Aside from my dream, I was fed the retarded potion 3 times in every hour by one very “cute” friend from ITE. LOL!!!

We call him! The C..c…t.. LOL!

Although he is full of retardness but still he was good friend. Another was beginning to show symptom of the retardness disease. We are 20, oldest in the class and we behave like the youngest in the class! LOL. Maybe my classmates don’t really know how to have fun?

But still it was fun looking back at the 7 weeks. Okay now I’m missing the time when I’m always sitting alone in the canteen 3 early in the morning eating. It’s so quiet and so comfortable despite all those birds fly here and there.

After this holiday another 5 – 6 weeks and its end of the semester! That is fast. On the side note this is to another good friend of mine.

“Do take care, don’t think too much. It’s all part of growing up till our appointment date again.”

And And And! I miss my Xiao Tou!

~ouT

Hear Me Cry - Cagnet

What is What?

What actually is what? It did make me think for awhile. When you’re too involved in issues, you really can’t see the big picture. But when you take a step back and slow down your pace, everything seems redundant.

I thought of a lot of things when I’m taking the bus ride home. Should I let it go, or should I persist on most things? I am so seriously not enjoying life right now. I can spend like hundred over dollars but inside I just feel something is missing.

The joy and the excitement is lacking, I don’t know why. I am getting more and more used to this so called hectic life style. Slowing down my pace seems distant in my recent memory.

Speculation will be made for what I said, but this is too general. Should I be more reserved of how I feel? Or should I just persist on? Maybe I’m just not used to this hectic lifestyle pace? Or…I’m just sick of everything.

Maybe a change of things could refresh myself up. So what actually is what? No one knows.

Let's See! Happy One Year Baby~!

Happy one year baby! I spend a bomb today. Woot~ I am so not rich anymore… anyway I never was in the beginning lol. Thanks for the shirt you choose and brought me and I surely will wear it. I hope you will wear those item I brought for you too lol, aiya you sure will wear cause everything is you choose I pay.

Aside that school has been rather more and more… erm. Complicated… I suppose. Firstly, it’s WPB. The lecturer may leave us bad first impression but later on I notice that she isn’t that unreasonable. As for her skills, it is highly doubtful whether or not she is capable in teaching WPB as it is her first time teaching. But no doubt those 26 years in that school made her judgment flawless I suppose LOL.

Then it’s CM. Computing Maths. It’s not A-Maths, it’s more like E-Maths. I really need to refresh some maths damn stuff out for myself. As it is very long since I last touch Maths. Maybe 2 or 3 years, my mind has completed shut off maths. The lecturer isn’t that bad, he teaches and he keep on asking me know how to do a not. So it’s really hard to believe that poly lecturers can be that concern about you despite all the previous rumors I heard.

Well that’s all. Tomorrow having the lame IS module. Don’t really get it why we must take those lame modules. ZZZzz…

On the side note, watched Taken like on last friday and below is my favorite quote for the whole movie!

Bryan: I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you are looking for ransom, I can tell you I don't have money. But what I do have are a very particular set of skills; skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you let my daughter go now, that'll be the end of it. I will not look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you, and I will kill you.

Marko: [after a long pause] Good luck.

~ouT

First Day! BLAHHHHH!!!

Okay First day of school was:

Boring, Lame, Hot, Lousy Air-Cons, Bloody god damn so many slopes, Wearing Jeans and shoe in campus is hot. Chate Chate make us walk so far to eat big mac, laugh at me when I'm eating Big Mac. Listening to lame old lecturers mumbling away by himself. (lucky saying rubbish only). Wait there more don't go!

So many people went to the hot CCA fair. (Hot is not that HOT is "temperature" hot Head pain when I saw the crowd. Then another lame lesson (not consider one) another lecturer mumbling away by himself. But still a lecturer that is willing to help when ur someone is in need. Classmates was errrrr.... no comments ZIP =X.

Tats all~

See thats why I wasnt even happy when I got into NP or any poly. LOL~~ Tml still got some lame IS module. Cannot even learn anything hardcore. I need some hardcore stuff like indepth programming shit to scare me! Blah =X

and and and...

I miss baby like crazy!
我好想念我好玲儿的撒娇...

Come back to me - Utada Hikaru

Everything I ever did
Heaven knows I'm sorry babe,
I was too young to see
You were always there for me
And my curiosity
Got the better of me
Baby take it easy on me

Anything from A to Z
Tell me what you want to be
I open my heart to be
You are more priority
Can't you see you've punished me
More than enough already
Baby, take it easy on me

(Baby... take it easy on me)

One of the favorite part of lyrics I love to sing currently.

Utada Hikaru : This One ( Crying Like A Child )

Utada Hikaru : This One ( Crying Like A Child )
Album: This is the One
Album Just released!

Most of the songs are incredible as this is the 2nd english album Utada launched. Come Back to Me have been in peak 1 in US for more than 1 week.

Critics Review: 4.5 / 5.0

~ouT

A BIG circle? Perhaps or not...?

Okay firstly, congrats to everyone in entering the desire poly that you wanted to go. Two years and so many things to reminiscence on. I was sitting on the bus thinking what actually happened for this past two years on the way home after sending my Precious BaBy.

On the first semester I met this weirdo called Yenping, (and he is still weird till now…) dragged me join this CCA called interact club. Which many silly things happened later on. First semester was calm, strange and unfamiliar.

Came the 2nd semester which this weirdo Yenping dropped out and this noisy boy came into my picture with his non stop yakking about everything LOL! ITE, Countries, Girls, Classmates, Class, Lecturers, Projects, Donald Trump, Private Jet, Condos… more and more just keep yakking away and away. However for some strange reason, ITE life wasn’t that quiet and bored due to his yakking. 2nd semester was noisy, colorful and HOT (no aircons for 2nd sems). ( I will forever miss this phrase: Guo Wei ar, I tell you…)

Then the 3rd semester with this Noisy Boy went to NYP and the yakking stop. Then came in two person, one is really has a black skin tone compared to me. Another one sometimes acts like a retard which all of us don’t really knows whether to laugh or cry to be his friend. However both of them are great people to be with and they do their project like godspeed! 3rd semester was “The yakking stop and the gaming starts”.

On the back scene of my life, another person important impacted my life. Although I have known her 7 years and being together for 11 months and 4 days. ( will dedicate something to this person below )

Lastly the 4th semester hits by then everyone know what to achieve for the last semester to get into poly. Which I made a wise move by staying put in ITE and not going RP on the end of 2nd semester. I don’t know it’s wise or not well it really depend on how you see it. Luckily I do manage to get into the current poly… With the 4th semester it was busy busy busy. With 3 projects at hand and I successfully deliver it with triple A. Of course some thanks to people involved. 4th semester was fruitful, enjoyable and fun.

It’s been 2 years, and one huge circle. Meet a lot of weird and interesting people. Friends and more. Expectations have been fulfilled. Letdowns = 0 (luckily). I will forever remember almost every morning, my dad will often said: “People your age already JC want to graduate going to NS then University and you still at ITE then later 3 years poly then university. You walk so big round for what?”

Oh well, that’s life isn’t it? You made a mistake and you try your best to correct it to the best it can. I do have regrets but there is nothing I can do because I do not control time. What I can do is learn from it. Part of growing up? With this marks my little reminiscence of these past two years.

Okay next up is something dedicated to this special someone.

To Precious BaBy: I know that you have been with me for 11 months and been there supporting my decision every time. I am really grateful to you in terms of sheer confidence towards me and my decision. Every time that you think I won’t get into poly and will enter the NS you would cried so badly.

You said you’re lucky as I’m entering the next phrase of my life which is the poly phrase because you can see me 3 more years. Actually, you’re not lucky; instead I am lucky to have you by my side. For the next phrase of my life and in the future, my future...

Sometimes, all I need is someone to stand by me and support me and believe in me. You are that person. You always done those things I wrote above. You always say don’t worry I’m confident you will make it. You made me see more of myself (unintentionally).

With this big round the biggest gift is you!

PS: I love the shirts, I can see you loves the heels.